Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers.
(1 Peter 4:16)
The scripture above makes it clear that you should set a good example, as you never know who is watching and taking notes. We aren't expected to soften someones' heart to God, but we are expected to live a life that may make someone draw near to us to ask us what our "secret" to a fulfilled life may be. Plant the seed.... watch it grow.